YES!!!! Its his baby too! As a woman regardless of your inability to be a great mother, dont doubt the fathers' ability  and oportunity to be a great father. If it doesnt work out, there are hundreds of women out there who would love to have a child to call their own. Dont be a Killer, and dont be so selfish. Men are just as much to blame as a woman is regarding this abortion deal. dont just down play the women. get on these men out there that beat the woman to kill the baby, or manipulate her in to thinking its the right thing to do because he doesnt want a baby and he loves her. Or down right killing the woman who is pregnant. It DOES go both ways, and both have to take into mind the consequences of abortion.

-changing the way the world loves-

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Ahh , Good bye August Hello September. I welcome you with open arms. You have come at such an opportune time in my life. I am ready to take all that you have to offer. I cant say that I have ever had anything really extreme or exciting happen to me personally in the month of september.( yeha i know there was 9/11, but im not talking about that)

 I think back through my memories, and september never really sticks out. This month on the 5th, I start a much needed new job. Which I am very very excited about. My God-daughter will be four months on the 13th. I will be starting my second block of courses this month. I will be hopefully winning my lawsuit this month, which in turn may pay for my new car and apartment. Also I am anticipating some serious changes in my relationship. Well we have a very serious and intimate friendship, I dont like to use labels, so we are what we are. Its different but doable.

I had a wonderful time with friends and family at out holiday gathering. Love BBQ's. Jerry hooked it up.... ow ow. It was dabomb.com fo sho. The mothers to be prepared the deviled-eggs, Jerry did all the meat 9 Ribs, Chicken, Hot Dogs, Burgers) and greens and macaroni, and shrimp,  Anne did the corn bread, IT SLAPPED!!! literally, my mouth is still sore, it was so good. Bush's got them baked beans on point, eh yesssirrr!!!!! Mountain Dew and Pepsi made an appearance. Was a lil salty about  not seeing My home slice Coca Cola. its all good though. Red Hot showed up to visit my greens. I was not at all fond of the potato salad, Jerry admitted he slacked on it. I took one look at it and kept is moving. Didnt want to hold up the line by thinking about it too much. Anne said it wasnt that great, I said, sometimes looks arent deceiving ...LOL!!!! everyone cracked up, but everyone wasnt supposed to hear that. Being black I sometimes forget how loud I am... LOL!!!!!!!!! "BLACK PEOPLE!!!" Nonetheless the food was great, and the memories we created today will be collected and the more i forget the bad ones, the more room it makes for all the good ones to come.

I love my family very much. I hope many of you had the opportunity to spend time with friends and family and enjoy fellowshipping and laughter.

Best part of the whole day was when the family came together for prayer over the meal. GOD IS GOOD!!!!!

-changing the way the world loves-

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"Brothers and sisters of the world, open your hearts to love , open your eyes with a vision, open your mouths to encourage, open your arms to embrace our children, open your mind to the heavens, and change the way the world loves"

Jaquatta Chambers

06/22/2008

This is what i said, sitting on my front porch with two of the greatest women of all time and they have yet to embrace their greatness. I love you Kristie and Steph

   

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